Goldilocks measures and compares adult toys. Everything here is written in plain words, and none of it is for under-18s.
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14 makers use the same handful of words for wildly different silicone. Every label they print is below, with the Shore value they publish, where we place it on one scale, and what owners report after squeezing one. For what those numbers feel like in the hand, start with the firmness explainer.
Two badges on every row, because they're two different questions. What the maker claims is theirs; where we place it is ours, and one can be certain while the other is a judgement call. Bad Dragon publishes no Shore value at all and a reviewer still measured their Medium; Phreak publishes 3A with total confidence and we still had to decide what that means next to everyone else's 00-50.
| Maker | Their label, verbatim | What they say | On our scale |
|---|---|---|---|
| Bad Dragon numbers their own scale — not Shore | “Extra Soft (2 firmness)” Placed by ladder analogy only. No source gives a Shore figure for BD Extra Soft. Feels like: "like a gummy bear… riding isn't as easy… definitely for knots" 28 | “2” — their own number, not a Shore value maker-published 30 | Ultra soft community reading 1526 |
| “Soft (3 firmness)” Ladder analogy only; no BD-specific Shore figure found in any source. Feels like: "squishy", "marshmallow like" 19 | “3” — their own number, not a Shore value maker-published 30 | Soft community reading 26 | |
| “Medium (5 firmness)” Phallophile: BD's medium "test slightly softer than the 00-50 silicones from other makers" — so the bottom of our Medium band, not the middle. | “5” — their own number, not a Shore value maker-published 30 | Medium reviewer-measured 15 | |
| “Firm (8 firmness)” Disputed — see dispute d-bd-firm-8a. Phallophile puts it around 00-80 (i.e. still Shore 00, top of Medium in felt terms); a third-party maker's guide instead calls it A8. We place it at the top of Medium and render both claims. Feels like: "PF's firm is WAY harder than Bad Dragon's" 24 label vs measurement → | “8” — their own number, not a Shore value maker-published 30 | Medium reviewer-measured 15 | |
| “Near Clear Soft” Near Clear is a cross-maker formulation, nominally ~00-31, that firms up with heat and age. See dispute d-near-clear-drift. firms up over time → | no Shore published maker-published 30 | Soft community reading 20 | |
| Creature Feature Toys publishes Shore 00 and Shore A values | “Super Soft 00-20” | 00-20 maker-published 35 | Ultra soft maker-published 35 |
| “Soft 00-30” | 00-30 maker-published 35 | Soft maker-published 35 | |
| “NC31” firms up with age — Near Clear Near Clear formulation; firms with heat/age. firms up over time → | 00-31 maker-published 3512 | Soft community reading 20 | |
| “Medium 00-50” | 00-50 maker-published 35 | Medium maker-published 35 | |
| “Firm 10A” | 10A maker-published 35 | Firm maker-published 35 | |
| Fantasy Grove publishes Shore 00 and Shore A values | “00-20 Super Soft” | 00-20 maker-published 534 | Ultra soft maker-published 5 |
| “00-30 Soft” | 00-30 maker-published 534 | Soft maker-published 5 | |
| “00-31 Soft” firms up with age — Near Clear "Near clear 00-31 is similar to soft in firmness" — the maker's own equivalence. firms up over time → | 00-31 maker-published 534 | Soft maker-published 5 | |
| “00-45 Medium” firms up with age — Near Clear "near clear 00-45 is similar to medium in firmness" — the maker's own equivalence. | 00-45 maker-published 534 | Medium maker-published 5 | |
| “00-50 Medium” | 00-50 maker-published 534 | Medium maker-published 5 | |
| “10A Firm” | 10A maker-published 534 | Firm maker-published 5 | |
| “Split Firmness” Per-part firmness (e.g. "00-20 Super Soft Shaft" + "00-50 Medium Base"). Never collapse to one step. | no Shore published maker-published 34 | two firmnesses in one toy — we never collapse it to one step | |
| Mr Hankey's Toys describes firmness as a percentage, not a material | “Packer Soft” the maker says: not for insertion "Strictly intended for novelty purposes and should not be utilized for insertion" — the only explicit firmness-tier prohibition anywhere in the category. Should never be offered as a buying option. | no Shore published maker-published 4 | Ultra soft maker-published 4 |
| “40% Soft” "a penis that is 40-50% erect", "more forgiving and comfortable". Firmer than 75% Soft despite the lower number — the % is % of softness applied, not % erect in the intuitive direction. This ordering trips buyers up constantly. | 40% soft — their own scale maker-published 415 | Medium community reading 4 | |
| “75% Soft” Two reviewers, two different answers — see dispute d-mht-75-soft. We place it at Soft on the strength of the squish test, and render the disagreement. Feels like: "soft without being flimsy"; stands on its own even on a narrow base 2217 reviewer vs reviewer → | 75% soft — their own scale maker-published 4 | Soft reviewer-measured 1715 | |
| “Med Firm” Phallophile: "'medium firm' option tests between 8 and 9A on the shore scale" — i.e. Shore A, above most indies' 00-50 Medium but below the 10A everyone else calls Firm. Feels like: "similar to a fully erect penis" (the maker's own words) 4 | no Shore published maker-published 4 | Medium reviewer-measured 15 | |
| “Extra Firm” Placed by ordering alone (firmer than Med Firm, which measures 8–9A). No Shore figure exists for it in any source. Feels like: "hard" and "not very forgiving and generally not recommended for beginners" (the maker's own words — no analogy exists and we won't invent one) 4 | no Shore published maker-published 4 | Extra firm community reading 4 | |
| Pleasure Forge publishes Shore 00 and Shore A values | “Super Soft 00-20” | 00-20 maker-published 3 | Ultra soft maker-published 3 |
| “Soft 00-30” 00-31 in the Near Clear formulation — see d-near-clear-drift. | 00-30 maker-published 3 | Soft maker-published 3 | |
| “Medium 00-50” Maker's own note: "Good for beginners!" | 00-50 maker-published 3 | Medium maker-published 3 | |
| “Firm 10A” Corroborated at exactly 10A by Phallophile alongside Strange Bedfellas. Rarely poured — mostly suction-cup bases. Community: "PF's firm is WAY harder than Bad Dragon's". Feels like: "PF's firm is WAY harder than Bad Dragon's" 24 | 10A maker-published 3 | Firm reviewer-measured 15 | |
| Sinnovator publishes Shore 00 and Shore A values | Careful — the names run backwards here. INVERTED NAMING. Sinnovator's 'Super Soft' (00-40) is FIRMER than its 'Squishy Soft' (00-20). Every other maker in this dataset uses 'Super Soft' for their softest pour, usually 00-20. Shared with Uncover Creations (same group). see the receipts → | ||
| “Squishy Soft” "Around 20 on the Shore 00 scale. The softest we pour…" Feels like: "compresses and bends with no resistance whatsoever" — all yield, no spine 6 inverted naming →one word, two meanings → | 00-20 maker-published 6 | Ultra soft maker-published 6 | |
| “Super Soft” "Around 40 on the Shore 00 scale." Top of our Soft band — a full two ladder steps firmer than what 'Super Soft' means at Pleasure Forge, Wandering Bard, Fantasy Grove or Strange Bedfellas (all 00-20). Feels like: "Plenty of squish. A favourite in the fantasy world…" 6 inverted naming → | 00-40 maker-published 6 | Soft maker-published 6 | |
| “Medium” 10A is what Pleasure Forge, Strange Bedfellas, Fantasy Grove and Creature Feature all call FIRM. Sinnovator's 'Medium' is the industry's 'Firm'. Placed at Firm and flagged. Feels like: "A little give, nothing more. Harder to compress than our softer pours…" 6 same word, different silicone → | 10A maker-published 6 | Firm maker-published 615 | |
| SquarePeg names only — no numbers published | “SuperSoft” "The SuperSoft density averages at 00-40 Shore" — the top of our Soft band, not ultra-soft, despite the name. Feels like: "so frickin' meaty"; ideal for large anal, sensitive users and menopausal users wanting gentler 15 | no Shore published maker-published 31 measured 00-40 reviewer-measured | Soft reviewer-measured 15 |
| “Firmer” "SquarePeg's Firmer silicone is not firm by other makers' standards, at about 5A." A SquarePeg 'Firmer' is nowhere near a Pleasure Forge or Strange Bedfellas 'Firm' (10A) — this is the most misleading single word in the dataset. Feels like: "still soft, but not uber-flexible like the other SuperSoft Slims" 15 label vs measurement →buying trap → | no Shore published maker-published 31 measured 5A reviewer-measured | Medium reviewer-measured 15 | |
| Strange Bedfellas publishes Shore 00 and Shore A values | “Super Soft 00-20” | 00-20 maker-published 32 | Ultra soft maker-published 32 |
| “Soft 00-30” Reviewer squish test on the Ceela agrees with the label. Feels like: "very cushiony and flexible… comparable to my palm muscle" 16 | 00-30 maker-published 32 | Soft reviewer-measured 16 | |
| “Near Clear 31*” firms up with age — Near Clear Nominally Soft; firms toward 00-45/00-50 with heat and age. firms up over time → | 00-31 maker-published 32 | Soft community reading 2013 | |
| “Medium 00-50” Feels like: "firmness similar to unflexed muscle" 27 | 00-50 maker-published 32 | Medium maker-published 32 | |
| “Firm 10A” Phallophile groups Strange Bedfellas' firm with Pleasure Forge's, Damn Average's, New Folklore's and Kudu Voodoo's at exactly 10A — the cleanest cross-maker agreement in the whole dataset. Available on select toys only. Feels like: "firmness similar to flexed muscle" 27 | 10A maker-published 32 | Firm reviewer-measured 15 | |
| Uncover Creations publishes Shore 00 and Shore A values | Careful — the names run backwards here. Same inverted naming as Sinnovator (sister brand): 'Super Soft' 00-40 is firmer than 'Squishy Soft' 00-20. see the receipts → | ||
| “Squishy Soft” "our softest firmness, and these toys compress and bend effortlessly" Feels like: will need a little extra support to stand upright 7 inverted naming →one word, two meanings → | 00-20 maker-published 7 | Ultra soft maker-published 7 | |
| “Super Soft” "This has a lot of squish to it. In the fantasy dildo world, this is a very popular firmness…" Feels like: "Uncover's soft is closer to a bad dragon medium" — community, 218 pts 23 inverted naming → | 00-40 maker-published 7 | Soft maker-published 7 | |
| “Medium” "a little squish to it, while being more difficult to compress than soft, super soft and squishy soft" — but 10A is the industry's Firm. same word, different silicone → | 10A maker-published 7 | Firm maker-published 7 | |
| “Dual Density” Two materials in one toy; a single common-scale step would misrepresent it. Render as a pair, never as one step. Feels like: "Soft on the outside, firm on the inside" 7 | 00-20 exterior / 10A core maker-published 7 | two firmnesses in one toy — we never collapse it to one step | |
| Wandering Bard Toys publishes Shore 00 values | “00-10 Ultra Soft” Softest pour anywhere in our dataset. It appears in four listing titles (all Small, all sold out, seen 2026-07-17/18) and in none of Wandering Bard's own firmness copy, which publishes 00-20/00-30/00-50 and calls 00-50 their firmest. Read it as a limited pour they ran, not a standing option — and never offer it as one. | 00-10 maker-published 3336 | Ultra soft maker-published 3336 |
| “00-20 Super Soft” Feels like: "feels similar to a gummy candy" 1 | 00-20 maker-published 1 | Ultra soft maker-published 1 | |
| “00-30 Soft” Feels like: "feels similar to a gel insole" 1 | 00-30 maker-published 1 | Soft maker-published 1 | |
| “00-31 Soft” firms up with age — Near Clear Near Clear formulation of Soft; firms with heat/age. firms up over time → | 00-31 maker-published 332 | Soft community reading 20 | |
| “00-50 Medium” Their firmest standard option. Feels like: "feels similar to a rubber eraser" 1 | 00-50 maker-published 1 | Medium maker-published 1 | |
| Exotic-Erotics names only — no numbers published shown for comparison — we don't track this maker's catalogue yet | “Soft” Placed by ordering only — no Shore figure exists for EE Soft in any source. | no Shore published maker-published 11 | Soft community reading 26 |
| “Medium” "Twin Tail Creations and Exotic Erotics use 6A silicone as their medium density." | 6A reviewer-measured 15 | Medium reviewer-measured 15 | |
| “Hard” "…report that their firm firmness is about 8A shore." Despite the word Hard, it sits below the 10A that Pleasure Forge and Strange Bedfellas call Firm. label vs measurement → | 8A reviewer-measured 15 | Firm reviewer-measured 15 | |
| “Medium head / Hard shaft” Split firmness, +$10 upcharge. Render per part. | no Shore published maker-published 11 | two firmnesses in one toy — we never collapse it to one step | |
| “Soft head / Hard shaft” Split firmness, +$10 upcharge. | no Shore published maker-published 11 | two firmnesses in one toy — we never collapse it to one step | |
| “Soft head / Medium Shaft” Split firmness, +$10 upcharge. | no Shore published maker-published 11 | two firmnesses in one toy — we never collapse it to one step | |
| Phreak publishes Shore 00 and Shore A values shown for comparison — we don't track this maker's catalogue yet | “Super Soft” Feels like: "mimicking the softness of gel-filled stress balls" 8 | 00-20 maker-published 8 | Ultra soft maker-published 8 |
| “Soft” 00-35, a touch firmer than the 00-30 most indies call Soft. Feels like: "akin to a rubber door stopper" 8 | 00-35 maker-published 8 | Soft maker-published 8 | |
| “Medium” Published as "Shore Hardness A03". 3A sits below the 5A–10A band a measuring reviewer describes as "still soft, not soooo squishy", so this is a soft Medium. We do not convert 3A into a Shore 00 number. Feels like: "like a firm rubber ball—supportive yet with some give" 8 different ruler → | 3A maker-published 8 | Medium community reading 15 | |
| “Firm” 15A falls in the 10A–19A "medium-soft" band a measuring reviewer defines; firmer than everyone else's 10A Firm but short of extra firm. Feels like: the maker says "much like a car tire" — we don't repeat that: a car tire is about 70A 825 analogy doesn't hold → | 15A maker-published 8 | Firm reviewer-measured 15 | |
| “Split Firmness” "soft shaft with firm base or medium shaft with firm base" — render per part. | no Shore published maker-published 8 | two firmnesses in one toy — we never collapse it to one step | |
| “Dual Density” "a firm core inside a soft or super soft exterior" — no Shore pair published. | no Shore published maker-published 8 | two firmnesses in one toy — we never collapse it to one step | |
| Twin Tail Creations numbers their own scale — not Shore shown for comparison — we don't track this maker's catalogue yet | “Extra Soft” Community wiki only; not listed on the maker's current FAQ. | 00-20 community reading 21 | Ultra soft community reading 21 |
| “Soft (3)” Maker: "squishy and easy to compress, similar to relaxed muscle". Shore figure is the community wiki's, not the maker's. Feels like: relaxed muscle 10 | 00-30 community reading 21 | Soft maker-published 10 | |
| “Medium (6)” Phallophile: "Twin Tail Creations and Exotic Erotics use 6A silicone as their medium density." A community wiki instead lists 00-50–00-60 for Medium — see dispute d-ttc-medium-scale. Feels like: semi-tense muscle 10 sources disagree → | 6A reviewer-measured 15 | Medium reviewer-measured 15 | |
| “Firm (8)” "Twin Tail Creations and Exotic Erotics report that their firm firmness is about 8A shore." Community wiki agrees ("A-8"). Note the coincidence: TTC's Firm number is 8 AND its Shore A value is ~8 — unlike Bad Dragon, where the '8' means nothing on the A scale. Feels like: flexed muscle, "almost no squish" 10 | 8A reviewer-measured 1521 | Firm reviewer-measured 15 | |
| Uberrime publishes a Shore value per model shown for comparison — we don't track this maker's catalogue yet | “Soft & Squishy Shore 0030” Available as a custom pour on any dildo. | 00-30 maker-published 915 | Soft maker-published 9 |
| “Soft Shore 0050” Uberrime call 00-50 "soft" (as on the Sensi); on our common scale 00-50 is Medium. Naming trap. same word, different silicone → | 00-50 maker-published 9 | Medium reviewer-measured 15 | |
| “10NV silicone” "a 10NV silicone that comes out at about 7A shore" — the trade name says 10, the durometer says ~7. | no Shore published measured 7A reviewer-measured | Medium reviewer-measured 15 | |
| “8a” Recommended by the maker for slender/G-spot/prostate designs. | 8A maker-published 9 | Medium maker-published 9 | |
| “10a” The original Night King. | 10A reviewer-measured 15 | Firm reviewer-measured 15 | |
| “12a” Uberrime call 12A "medium"; on our scale it is Firm. same word, different silicone → | 12A maker-published 9 | Firm maker-published 9 | |
| “16a” The Astra dildos, "for more G-spot pressure". | 16A maker-published 915 | Extra firm reviewer-measured 15 | |
| “20a” Maker recommends for butt plugs and targeting toys. | 20A maker-published 9 | Extra firm maker-published 9 | |
maker-published Stated by the maker who pours the silicone, on their own site or in their own listing text (including listing text captured by our scraper).
reviewer-measured A named reviewer physically tested the toy — durometer reading or a documented comparative squish test — and published the result.
community reading Repeated, attributable community statements (forum/Reddit/wiki/third-party maker comparison) with no measurement behind them.
our filter data The step our browse filters use for a label the research pass hasn't reached. No source behind it beyond our own normalisation.
Uncover Creations' soft is close to a Bad Dragon medium.
218-point Reddit thread. Consistent with the numbers: Uncover 'Super Soft' is 00-40 and BD medium tests slightly under 00-50.Pleasure Forge's Firm is much harder than Bad Dragon's Firm.
Consistent with Phallophile's reading that BD's '8' is a Shore 00 firmness (~00-80) while PF's Firm is a genuine 10A.Pleasure Forge, Strange Bedfellas, Damn Average, New Folklore and Kudu Voodoo all mean 10A by 'Firm' — while Lust Arts, Xenocat Artifacts and Split Peaches call the same 10A 'Medium'.
The single clearest demonstration that the words are unreliable and the numbers are not.A third-party maker's guide equates its own Medium to "Bad Dragon's Firm (Hardness A8)".
Published by Dauntless Rooster, not by Bad Dragon. Directly contradicted by Phallophile — see d-bd-firm-8a. Recorded because it is the origin of the widely repeated 'BD firm = 8A' belief.'Super Soft' means Shore 00-20 at Pleasure Forge, Wandering Bard, Fantasy Grove, Creature Feature, Strange Bedfellas and Phreak — but Shore 00-40 at Sinnovator and Uncover Creations.
Two full ladder steps apart under the same two words. The headline finding of this dataset."Bad Dragon's firm firmness is called '8,' but there's no way it's 8A: more likely 00-80 shore, so much softer."
reviewer-measured 15Where we stand: We do not assert either number. We record that Bad Dragon publishes no Shore value at all, that the '8' is a house number, and that the one reviewer who measures things puts it around 00-80 — i.e. still on the Shore 00 ruler, softer than any maker's 10A Firm.
"John Thomas Toys' (United Kingdom based fantasy dildos & silicone stretchers) Soft option is 2A Shore as well, not the 15A that the manufacturer reports."
reviewer-measured 15Where we stand: A maker-published Shore number can be wrong by a wide margin. This is the cleanest documented example and the reason every mapping on this site carries a source badge. Same reviewer adds of their medium: "I have no idea how firm the medium density is, but wouldn't be surprised if it's softer than the 20A the maker reports."
John Thomas Toys is not currently a brand in our DB; carried as evidence, not as a product mapping.
"Mr. Hankey's Toys' 75% Soft firmness now is more like 00-80 Shore."
reviewer-measured 15Where we stand: Two reviewers, eight years apart, disagree — and the later one says "now is", which may mean the pour changed. We show both and the dates, and do not average them.
Where we stand: Always render the Shore number next to these two makers' labels, never the label alone.
Where we stand: Placed at Firm on our common scale, with the maker's word shown verbatim beside it.
'Squishy' is a firmness grade (Sinnovator/Uncover: Squishy Soft, 00-20).
maker-published 67Elsewhere 'Squishy' is a product category — non-insertable novelty pieces.
community reading 29Where we stand: Never use the bare word 'Squishy' as a firmness label in our own copy; always qualify.
"SquarePeg's Firmer silicone is not firm by other makers' standards, at about 5A."
reviewer-measured 15Where we stand: Placed at Medium, not Firm. SquarePeg publishes no Shore value by policy, so the reviewer figure is the only number that exists.
Where we stand: For SquarePeg, firmness and colourway are one selection, not two. Any size×firmness×colourway grid must model that.
Where we stand: Normalise Uberrime on the Shore value in the listing, never on the word.
"Twin Tail Creations and Exotic Erotics use 6A silicone as their medium density."
reviewer-measured 15Where we stand: Different rulers, so not reconcilable by arithmetic. Both land at Medium on our common scale, which is why we place it there and show both figures.
About 8A — softer than the 10A that Pleasure Forge and Strange Bedfellas sell as Firm, and far softer than Uberrime's 16A/20A.
reviewer-measured 15Where we stand: Placed at Firm, not Extra firm.
Where we stand: Placed at Medium with the scale change called out.
Smooth-On's durometer reference puts a car tire at about 70A.
maker-published 25Where we stand: We do not repeat the car-tire analogy. Where a maker's own analogy is contradicted by the reference scale, we show the number and drop the analogy.
Where we stand: Already modelled in the DB as firmness_map.near_clear_drift (migration 004). A Near Clear listing should be shown as Soft now, Medium later.
Fantasy Grove: shore figures come from standardised samples, their labelling "indicates which silicone formula they used, not necessarily what a home durometer test would show", and "the more pigment generally, the more firm a toy may feel". Pleasure Forge: "firmness/shore hardness differences can be possible due to manufacturing differences in units of silicone we receive from our silicone supplier". Twin Tail: "density may naturally vary between silicone batches".
maker-published 531028Where we stand: Three independent makers say the label is a formula, not a measurement. Every mapping we render must be framed as a comparison tool.
"thicker toys will have less squish and feel firmer" (Wandering Bard); "A larger toy in a softer grade might feel similar to a smaller toy in medium firmness" (Fantasy Grove); "My Soft Medium Marcel feels firmer than my Medium firmness Large Nox sheerly due to girth" (community); "when getting XL toys, you'll probably want medium or even soft density from BD, because thicker silicone feels harder" (reviewer).
maker-published 152815Where we stand: Firmness is never renderable as a single axis. Two makers, one reviewer and the community all state the girth interaction independently.
Translucent “Near Clear” pours are nominally Soft (00-31) — but the clear, pigment-free silicone measurably firms up with heat and age, drifting toward 00-45–00-50. If a listing says Near Clear, expect it to arrive soft and slowly become a medium. Every affected label in the table above says firms up with age on its own row (you can watch it drift on the map), and we flag it on toy pages where it applies. It's a property of the clear material, whoever pours it — the sources are here. Own one? Tell the ledger how it aged.
The table above is what the makers say. This is the ledger of what owners felt: pick the label on your toy and tell us whether it arrived softer, about right, or firmer. Toy age matters — it's how we catch drifters like Near Clear.